Stressed-Out, Part 2: 4 Tips for Stress-Free Busyness

Jerusha Agen Fighting Fear 6 Comments

woman-stressed-by-computer (1280x907)I sat back in my chair with a sigh and a smile. Finally, I’d finished that email that had been weighing me down for over a week. It was something that needed to be done and something I wanted to do, but I couldn’t warrant giving it top priority among my plethora of to-dos until that day.

I took a little break and went back to my computer, eager to move on to the work I’d put on hold to get that delayed task done.

A message notification blinked at me. Another job for me to do—another item to add to my crowded list.

The fact is, it’s a very, very rare day that I can actually complete my list of things I have to do. In all honesty, such a thing maybe never happens anymore. Instead, the opposite now seems the norm—my to-do list growing faster than I can check items off.

I know I’m not alone in this experience. Many of you have more tasks than I have to tackle every day. Perhaps your schedules are packed, as well, especially with fall and the school year coming up fast.

Amid our clustered calendars and insurmountable lists, anxiety and stress easily become our companions in life. But who has time to deal with the stress, right?

So we keep going, running in this rat race with worry and stress nipping at our heels, driving us to sprint in faster bursts until we reach the point of total collapse. Some of us have decided such stress is just a way of life, so we accept it as inevitable.

Two weeks ago, I shared what Jesus has to say about such stress. I also shared His solution to eliminate the stress and worry of busyness from your life. If you only make one change in your life to tackle stress, spend more time with Jesus.

But if you want to knock this form of fear out of your life with multiple tactics, then check out these four practical tips to beat stress.

4-tips-for-stress-free-busyness-graphic(GIF)4 Tips for Stress-Free Busyness

1. Do the Next Thing

Elisabeth Elliot famously offered this advice to people dealing with grief, but it applies perfectly to stress, too. If you’re feeling overwhelmed by the length of your to-do list or your burgeoning schedule, stop looking at everything at once.

Instead, prioritize what needs to be done first and then focus only on that one, next thing. Repeat, and you’ll get everything done without the stress.

2. Get Reminder Help

When I’m in a busy season, the clutter around me tends to grow as I leave out files or other items to remind me I need to do something with them. The clutter only increases my stress.

If this is one of your tendencies, try putting away or disposing of the clutter and instead using more organized ways to remember your to-dos.

Notes work, but I find I reach a certain point when I don’t want to stick another note up on my mirror. My favorite way to reduce the clutter and stress is to use a phone or computer app that will send me reminders of the tasks I have to do.

Goodbye paper, clutter, and stress.

3. Take a Break with Jesus

This tip comes from Fear Warrior Blog reader, MJ (thanks, MJ!). MJ shared in a comment that, when feeling stressed by all that needs to be done, it helps to set a timer for five minutes and spend that time with Jesus.

This can be reading Scripture, praying, singing praise songs, worshiping…anything you can think of to spend time with Jesus and refresh your soul.

When the timer goes off, you’ll be relaxed and able to tackle your work with peace and joy instead of stress.

4. Take the Pressure Off

Come-to-me-rest-graphic(GIF)Sometimes the most practical help for fighting stress is a mental and spiritual realization. The stress-busting truth of my life comes from Ephesians 2:10: For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.

Remember that God created you to do these very tasks that are stressing you out right now. If you’re following His call in your life and striving to glorify Him in all you do (Col. 3:23), then you can relax in this amazing truth—He has already done the work for you! He has already prepared your tasks before they even made it to your list. All you have to do is walk in them. Pretty easy, right?

So breathe, relax, and remember that He’s equipped you fully for your good works (2 Tim. 3:17) and He has already guaranteed their completion, in His time.

Remember that, and you can walk away from stress forever.

Which of these tips might help you? Do you have stress-fighting techniques that work for you? Please share!

Comments 6

  1. Katie Sanders

    It just hit me: if God has already determined what tasks we will do, He will grant us everything we need (including the time!) to accomplish those tasks. And if something hinders us while we’re frantically trying to get everything done—say, someone comes to you with a burden to share—that “hindrance” is God’s next job for you, right? Thanks for the additional advice, Jerusha!

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      Jerusha Agen

      YES, Katie! That’s exactly what I was getting at. 🙂 God has done all the hard work, gives us everything we need to complete the task, and enables us to do so every step of the way. You’re right that it’s in His schedule, though, not ours! He throws seeming detours in there, but they are really part of our planned route the whole time. Thanks for reminding us how to handle those “surprises,” Katie!

  2. Patricia Bradley

    I have “Do the next thing” taped to my forehead. 🙂 And it’s what I always tell my girls when they’re overwhelmed. Just do the next thing. And I remind them about how you eat the elephant–one bite at a time.

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      Jerusha Agen

      Haha, love the idea of keeping that advice taped to your forehead, Pat. 🙂 Such great advice to pass on–every step we take is dependent on God, so one step at a time is the way to go! Thanks for joining the conversation!

  3. MJ

    Thanks for the solid, practical advice! And I’m flattered that you shared with your readers what God had taught me about giving Him more of my attention and time during my busyness!

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